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5th
JUL

The Boldman’s Next Step

Posted by Josh Boldman | Filed under Life, Westside

Wow, this morning was certainly interesting. Besides all the normal Sunday morning stuff (like accidentally butchering Amazing Grace – I know, this is one that I should know, right?), Rachel and I had the chance to break the news to our church that we’d be leaving for the Show Me State in August. Just in case you weren’t there, I know that this might be quite a shock, but please, know that this a good thing. For the past three years, we have been encouraging everyone at Westside to find their “Next Step” and to follow God’s guidance. Now it’s time for us to follow our own advice. Now that it’s kind of out in the open, we’ll be posting more info in the coming days/weeks, but certainly don’t be afraid to ask us about it. We’re excited about what God is doing in our lives, and we hope that everyone else can be as excited to know that we are doing what we believe God wants us to do.

In case you weren’t there, here’s a copy of the letter I read this morning in both services:

In September of 2006, my beautiful wife, Rachel, and I followed God’s calling on our lives to join the Westside Family, filling the role of Associate Pastor of Youth and Worship. In the almost three years that have followed, I have been given the privilege to serve with some of the kindest and most caring men and women that I have ever met. During this time, I have had the joy to serve under a senior pastor that has not only been a strong leader, an encouraging mentor, and dynamic visionary, but also a great friend and partner in the Lord’s ministry. It is a joy to have seen the collective youth and worship ministries and the individuals that are involved in those ministries grow in ways that we could not have foreseen. Though this growth has not always been easy, it has been incredibly rewarding. As Rachel and I reflect on this time that we have spent being a part of this family, we realize that these last three years will forever be remembered as some of our family’s greatest and most formative.

As a minister you have allowed me the joy to foster growth in your teenagers, but you have also given me the freedom to lead my own family. You cared for my wife and I throughout Rachel’s pregnancy and the birth of our son, Ezekiel, and you have welcomed him into this family without condition. I believe wholeheartedly that my family will be better off for having been a part of this family.

However, just as we believe that God called us to come here, we are now sensing God calling us away. For some time the calling on my heart has been to lead a congregation of God’s people much in the same way that Pastor Biz leads you. Over the years that I have been here, I have shared this desire with our Pastor and Elders, and they have been nothing short of encouraging through out this time of decision-making.

As we have been seeking God’s will for our next step, we have been introduced to a small church out of state that has been asking the Lord to send them a leader to help them move forward (much in the same way that Westside has moved forward in the past few years under Pastor Biz’s leadership). After much prayer and seeking Godly counsel, I have accepted the position of Lead Pastor at a church in Missouri. It is with a mix of both sadness and excitement that I inform you of my resignation as Associate Pastor of Westside Community Church, knowing that God has called us to move on.

I believe that great things are in store for both our family and the family at Westside. We certainly covet your prayers as we are beginning preparations to move our family in an attempt to follow the leadings of our Lord. Please also know that we will still be around for a short while and that we will be doing everything possible to empower leadership to take our place and to serve in our absence. We have already begun working with the youth volunteers to formulate a plan for the remainder of the summer and the coming school year, and I believe wholeheartedly that the volunteers that have been trained over the past few years are capable of continuing to foster spiritual growth not only your children but also the teenagers in the surrounding community. The ministry here at Westside is in capable hands.

Thank you for the opportunity to have served in a place that so very obviously blessed by the Lord. Again, we will still be around for a little while longer, and we certainly are looking forward to spending time with you before we make our transition. You have been such a blessing to our family. Thank you for being excited for us as we take this next step in the journey to which God has called us. We look forward to hearing about your next steps as well.  You will remain in our prayers, and it is our hope that we would remain in yours. Thank you.

I know that is a bit long, but it’s all true. We are looking forward to spending time with as many people as we can before we leave. So, be sure to call (or tweet) and let us know what time you’ve got open. Hey, we’ll even let you pay for dinner (aren’t we sweet?).

Before I sign off, we’ll be sitting down and talking through this at length with our Middle School youth on Wednesday. It may be a rough time for many of them, so your prayers are greatly appreciated. More info to come. Stay tuned.

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14th
JAN

Pink Bubblegum Cigars & Whatnot

Posted by Josh Boldman | Filed under Life

A whopping 6 lbs & 4 oz of congratulations go to Brandon and Miranda Dritenbas for the birth of their beautiful (or so I’ve heard) baby girl, Kate Rebecca. She was born last night around 6:19 PM. Mom & baby are doing just fine, but if you’re interested in reading the story, be sure to head over to this really hot chick’s blog to read all about it.

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1st
JAN

Not a creature was stirring… no, wait…

Posted by Josh Boldman | Filed under Life

Zeke and Santa

Where to start, where to start? Well, I guess I’ll begin with the picture of Zeke that you see about 35 pixels above this sentence. This, of course, was Zeke’s first Christmas, which, by all acounts was fairly memorable. It started, as it should have, with us taking Zeke to the mall for his first encounter with a morbidly obese man in a red suit that hasn’t shaved in about 7 years. I was thinking the same thing that you’re thinking now: What could go wrong with that?

Well, it wasn’t but about two seconds before Zeke realized that the man whose lap he was sitting on was not in fact his father, which led him to a mild nuclear (I would have said nuke-u-lar, but I wouldn’t want anyone to think that I was running for President or Vice President on the Republican ticket in 2012) meltdown. The picture you see above was one of 5 that we took, and it was, by far, the best (so you can just imagine what the other 4 looked like).

Then, we continued our Christmas adventure by celebrating Christmas Eve with my parents and sister on Christmas Eve at our yearly Christmas Eve service at church. It was actually very nice, except Zeke (and about 14 1/2 other infants) decided to show off his vocal skills throughout the entire sermon… from the second row. It was entertaining to say the very least.

Christmas Eve came and went, which means that our favorite red suited overeater (may he just has a glandular problem) visited just in time for Zeke to open his presents on Christmas morning, which more or less consisted of very little paper tearing and quite a bit of drooling, but hey, he’s got the rest of his life to figure that one out, right? Overall, it was an extremely pleasant morning. We figured nothing could ruin it. We even spent the afternoon and early evening with my inlaws, and it honestly went better than we could have expected.

Then we came home.

Perhaps we had counted our chickens too early. Perhaps we got too far ahead of ourselves. Perhaps we put the cart before the ox (or is it a horse?). Which ever sounds best, we did it. Literally seconds after had we gotten home and put Zeke to bed, we started commenting about how great the day had gone, when it happened. Rachel said the words that still send a chill down my spine…

“There’s a rat on my coffee table!”

Yep, that’s right, we had a rat in our apartment. Now, before you get yourselves too far ahead of the cart (or the ox… or the horse), know that the rat in our apartment was not due to our own uncleanliness (which I don’t think is a word). It, we later found out, got in from a giant crack in the foundation of the building that just so happens to be underneath our kitchen.

Well, after two days and $50 zillion in rat traps and bait, we ended up moving to a new apartment. Oh, and if any of you might mistakenly think that those “sticky” rat traps do anything, here’s a quick snapshot to prove the opposite. It’s a picture of a rat climbing on top of a sticky trap in order to boost himself (or herself… I’m so politically correct) back into his (or her) underground lair (I would have said “fortress of solitude,” but I thought that was giving the rat too much credit).

Rat climbing into cabinet

So, anyways, it has been an exceptionally busy and eventful Christmas season, but now that we’re moved into a new apartment, I’m hoping that the new year will be both peaceful and rodent-free.

Also, on Dec 28th, I was priveledged enough to be able to preach at our church. If you’re interested in watching the video, just check out the “Great Videos” section of this site.

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20th
OCT

Is It Really That Hard to Believe?

Posted by Josh Boldman | Filed under Life

So, many of you may know that for the past few years, I’ve enjoyed making and wearing my own T-shirts, the likes of which include a blue shirt that says, “I’m On The Red Team” or one that simply states, “My Kid Pooped On This Shirt… Twice,” but perhaps my favorite shirt looks a little (actually a lot) like this:

Perhaps one of the greatest benefit to wearing shirts like these is that almost every day someone comes up to me and asks, “did your kid really poop on your shirt?” or, “If you’re on the red team, why are you wearing a blue shirt?” It’s a great conversation starter, and I’m always in for a good conversation with a complete stranger, but I’m always puzzled by the questions I get when I wear the “I ♥ My Wife” shirt, like I did today. Here are a couple of the questions I’ve gotten:

  • “Does your wife make you wear that?”
  • “Did your wife get you that shirt?”
  • “Do you get in trouble if you don’t wear that shirt?”

So, just to clear the air…

  • No, my wife doesn’t make me wear anything.
  • No, I actually had the shirt made.
  • No, I don’t get in trouble if I don’t wear that shirt. Now, I might get in trouble if I just didn’t wear a shirt at all, but that wasn’t the question, now was it?

In reality, the reason that I wear this shirt is actually because if there’s only one thing that people know about me, I’d like for it to be that I am a man who is seriously crazy in love with his wife.

Now, since just about everyone gets to ask me questions about my shirts (which I seriously don’t mind), I just figure that I should get to ask a question every now and again. So, world, here it is…

If people (primarily guys) think it’s so strange that another guy would so proudly broadcast his love for his wife, what does that say about their own marriage?

I guess I wouldn’t even wonder except for the exchange I had with a couple today at Panera (I was attracted by the free wi-fi, not the “woman sandwiches”):

Guy: Does your wife make you wear that shirt? (laughing)

Me: Nope, actually, I just like having the opportunity telling other people how incredible my wife is.

Guy: (Obviously feeling a little dumb) Oh…

Now, don’t get me wrong, this is pretty much standard fare when I’m wearing this shirt, but what happened a few minutes later isn’t. You see, the guy’s wife stopped back by my table and told me that she thought it was great that a guy could be so unashamed of the love he has for his wife as to wear a shirt proclaiming it to whomever may see it.

To be honest, it was kind of sad. Now, don’t get me wrong, I know nothing of their relationship, but I do know that they didn’t both think that my shirt was something to be laughed at.

I guess in closing, I hope you may have learned a few things about me:

  1. I’m certainly on the red team
  2. My kid seriously has pooped on a few of my shirts… twice
  3. I definitely ♥ my wife, Rachel, and I’m looking forward to any chance that I can get to tell you about it.

You stay classy, San Diego.

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3rd
JUN

One Crazy, Crazy Weekend

Posted by Josh Boldman | Filed under Life, Westside

Holy cow, I don’t even know where to start with how wild (and busy) the past three days have been. I guess I’ll start with Saturday…

Saturday was pretty cool since we ended up at two different graduation parties (both of which had pretty good food). The first was for two students who were in our youth group in Lake Mary, Jessie and Arielle. Although it was great to see them, it was a little shocking to think that both of them were just starting 8th grade when I started in youth ministry at their church. I guess it is true that time goes by more and more quickly with each passing year. I got to see a few of the other students that we hadn’t seen in almost two years, and we got to show off Zeke (who just so happens to be getting huge!). After a few hours there catching up with some people that we miss dearly (and some who we miss not so dearly)m we headed back to our church for a graduation party for Rachel’s longtime friend Kristi. All in all, it was a great day.

Then, Sunday came around, and since our Senior Pastor is currently out of town, I got the privilege of preaching during both services. It was exhausting, so after lunch (which took waaaaay too long), we headed home and literally did nothing but sleep for the rest of the afternoon. I call that a pretty good day. By the way, if you’re interested, you can watch a video of the sermon here:

So now, we find our way to Monday, which had gone really well. We wrapped up the semester for our senior high schoolers’ small group with a great discussion about the last few chapters of the Book of Revelation, and then I headed home for some nice, peaceful relaxation. Or so I thought…

I hadn’t made it but maybe a mile into my bike ride home when I actually was hit headon by another person riding a bike. I know, seriously, that actually happened. First off, the kid (who was probably 16) didn’t have a light on his bike, but I saw him when he was at least 20 yards away. So I yelled out that I was going to move to the right side of the sidewalk. Since he began moving to the other side of the sidewalk, I thought he had heard me, but apparently I was very, very mistaken. It was at the very last second that he swerved right into my path, sending both of us sprawling. Immediately he started saying that he didn’t see me and that he hadn’t heard me.

Luckily we were both ok. My bike, however, did not fare so well. The front wheel is bent to the point that it keeps grinding against my front brakes, so at least for the time being, I will be driving to work until I can either fix the wheel myself or take it to get it fixed (since I will probably cause more damage by trying to fix it myself). I then hobbled myself and my ill-fated bicycle to the next shopping center where Rachel (my Knightess in shining Ford Taurus Wagon) picked me and my damaged friend up and took us home.

So yes, that has been my weekend, full of excitement and surprise. It’s weekends like this that make me wish that every once in a while I’d have a day (or maybe even two) that was reallly, really boring. My guess is, though, that this may actually never happen. I guess we’ll see.

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30th
APR

New Photos of Zeke

Posted by Josh Boldman | Filed under Life

Ok, so here are a few more pictures of Zeke’s first week. He’s doing great and so is Rachel. Thanks to those of you who have been praying for us and wishing us well.

Pictures of Zeke's First Week

Click Here to See Pictures of Zeke’s First Week

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